Gaming Addiction

Posted 16th Jun 2008 04:34 PM by Maticus

Gaming addiction is something we gamers hear about every day. Most of us are aware of the problem, but we’re also aware that is doesn’t happen to the majority of us, not to the degree where our lives start to degrade as a result.

However, the problem is becoming more common as computer game popularity grows. In today’s current climate, where parents or carers are perhaps more reluctant to let their children out to play on the streets where anything could happen to them, having them stay in to play their consoles or PC games might seem the safer option. So what are they to do when the gaming becomes the center of their child’s world?

A parent in just this situation wrote into thereporter.com to ask advice on what to do about their 17 year old son who plays WoW every moment of his spare time. Having lost all his friends, his grades failing, the parent asks how to go about helping the teen. Up until this point the parents have let him make his own choices, and let him deal with the consequences, but the situation isn’t improving.

Should they take his PC away, bearing in mind he’s 17? Should they have let it get this far? Is this what happens if children are allowed to play games fairly unrestricted?

Another report over the weekend tells of someone who knows several people who have been “addicted” to WoW, including a woman who apparently went into labor while in a raid, but wouldn’t go to the hospital until they’d finished.

Stories of this type must strike horror into any parent who recently treated their child to a computer game, but it’s important to remember that this only happens to a few select people. The vast majority of gamers treat games as a hobby, something to do when there’s nothing better around. We don’t all lose friends, stop washing and become unemployed ya know! But it’s important to remember that everything must be taken in moderation - “Even World of Warcraft”.




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SSH83
Posted 16, Jun 2008 04:57 PM
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Only 1 word to those parents, L2P.  That’s Learn To Parent, for starters, instead of cutting them off cold turkey, set up a play schedule as a mutual agreement?  IMO, if general education includes more food science and parenting class instead of Shakespearean and lord of the flies, our society would be a lot better off.

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SSH83
Posted 16, Jun 2008 04:57 PM
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Only 1 word to those parents, L2P.  That’s Learn To Parent, for starters, instead of cutting them off cold turkey, set up a play schedule as a mutual agreement?  IMO, if general education includes more food science and parenting class instead of Shakespearean and lord of the flies, our society would be a lot better off.

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SSH83
Posted 16, Jun 2008 04:57 PM
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Only 1 word to those parents, L2P.  That’s Learn To Parent, for starters, instead of cutting them off cold turkey, set up a play schedule as a mutual agreement?  IMO, if general education includes more food science and parenting class instead of Shakespearean and lord of the flies, our society would be a lot better off.

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Maticus
Posted 16, Jun 2008 05:16 PM
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[QUOTE=SSH83;4136369]Only 1 word to those parents, L2P.  That’s Learn To Parent, for starters, instead of cutting them off cold turkey, set up a play schedule as a mutual agreement?  IMO, if general education includes more food science and parenting class instead of Shakespearean and lord of the flies, our society would be a lot better off.

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Maticus
Posted 16, Jun 2008 05:16 PM
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[QUOTE=SSH83;4136369]Only 1 word to those parents, L2P.  That’s Learn To Parent, for starters, instead of cutting them off cold turkey, set up a play schedule as a mutual agreement?  IMO, if general education includes more food science and parenting class instead of Shakespearean and lord of the flies, our society would be a lot better off.

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Maticus
Posted 16, Jun 2008 05:16 PM
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[QUOTE=SSH83;4136369]Only 1 word to those parents, L2P.  That’s Learn To Parent, for starters, instead of cutting them off cold turkey, set up a play schedule as a mutual agreement?  IMO, if general education includes more food science and parenting class instead of Shakespearean and lord of the flies, our society would be a lot better off.

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Xeodus
Posted 16, Jun 2008 05:42 PM
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Yeah…I think the only way forward with these problems has got to be dialogue to agree a maximum play schedule which can then be enforced through the in game parental controls. If a kid REALLY needs to do a raid, they can always ask to get the controls removed from one night, at the expense of not being able to play at all on another. Hey, it might even teach them a bit about time management!

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Xeodus
Posted 16, Jun 2008 05:42 PM
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Yeah…I think the only way forward with these problems has got to be dialogue to agree a maximum play schedule which can then be enforced through the in game parental controls. If a kid REALLY needs to do a raid, they can always ask to get the controls removed from one night, at the expense of not being able to play at all on another. Hey, it might even teach them a bit about time management!

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Xeodus
Posted 16, Jun 2008 05:42 PM
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Yeah…I think the only way forward with these problems has got to be dialogue to agree a maximum play schedule which can then be enforced through the in game parental controls. If a kid REALLY needs to do a raid, they can always ask to get the controls removed from one night, at the expense of not being able to play at all on another. Hey, it might even teach them a bit about time management!

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waytofailself
Posted 16, Jun 2008 05:51 PM
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I have seen multiple students slip completely (not just with grades) back when I was teaching high school, and when talking to the parents I learned something: they were more interested in being their child’s friend than their child’s parent.

It’s really dangerous to let the kid “make their own choices” when the parent(s) do not set any boundaries.  Some of those kids chose to drive fast and wrap themselves around a tree.  Some choose to slip drugs into their date’s drink.  And while it may not seem as severe at first, some choose to stay away from the real world because the digital world is more desirable and more controllable.

I don’t think negotiation is always the best solution to the issue (especially in the severest cases).  If the child is really losing all of his friends and his grades are really slipping and the only thing the child can turn to is WoW, then it is the parent’s responsibility to pay attention, step in, and make sure the child knows that there is a world outside of that one medium.  It will hurt at first—hell, breaking away from any addiction would, but I don’t see trying to turn to a controlled play schedule as the best option.  People need alternatives.  It’s a lot easier than something like smoking, because at least in this case there is something else you can turn to instead of either doing it or not doing it.

Parents need to pay more attention to their children.  Far more than any other period in society, many drop their kids off in front of the TV or computer, turn it on (with parental controls of course!) and let it occupy their times without watching what actually slips through the filters.  That’s not parenting, that’s doing a load of laundry.

As for shakespeare & lord of the flies…maybe it’s just me being a former English teacher, but there’s a lot to learn about parenting from both.

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